If He Wanted To He Would — Course
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Based on your score, this is what we know... your love life is like ground-hog day — you keep waiting for a text back, settling for the bare minimum. That's not a coincidence. It's an unhealthy attachment style causing you to live in perpetual disappointment. The good news is you don't have to keep repeating history. You can heal your unhealthy attachment style, break that toxic cycle, and become a confident woman ready to date God's way.

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If He Wanted To He Would · Course

Stop decoding mixed signals.
Start being chosen.

A biblically-grounded, 5-session healing journey that helps Christian single women break toxic love patterns and attract a godly man who actually pursues them.

5 sessions · 20-40 min each · Lifetime access · Private community included

200K+Women reached
4.9★Average rating
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Sound familiar?

Maybe you can relate...

You're often interested in men who lead you on but don't want a relationship

The guys at church never actually ask you out

You're left wondering where the "relationship" is even going

The men who are interested aren't the ones you're drawn to

You keep falling for emotionally unavailable men

You can't find dating advice that actually applies to you

sit·u·a·tion·ship

Less than a relationship, but more than a booty call — a romantic connection that is, and will remain, undefined. "Let's just chill (and have feelings we're both too scared to name)."

↳ It's the exact thing standing between you and a godly relationship.

My story

"I was stuck in a situationship — waiting, hoping, but deep down I knew it wasn't leading to marriage."

A few years ago, that was me. I made the hard decision to walk away and went on a healing journey where I did 5 specific things that transformed my dating life. Seven months later, I met my husband.

Since then I've helped over 200,000 women find healing from situationships and toxic love patterns — and now I'm handing you the exact strategy.

Before you scroll past

Let's clear up what's on your mind

These are the three things almost every woman asks before enrolling — answered up front, not buried at the bottom.

"Is this even for me?"

If you're a Christian single woman ready to heal the patterns behind your dating life — situationship or not — this was built for you. Most women inside aren't currently in one; they just want to stop attracting the wrong men for good.

"I'm in my 40s/50s — will it still apply?"

Yes. Some of our most active community members are older single women who say the material restored their confidence to date again, at any age or season.

"Can my situationship still turn into something real?"

Maybe — anyone can change. But you can't keep living off breadcrumbs and expecting a five-course meal. Inside, I walk you through exactly how to test whether to stay or walk away.

What you get

Everything inside the course

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Full course — 5 sessions, 2 modules, 11 lessons
$397
Private community group chat with women like you
$197
Bonus: 5 Bonus Healing Sessions
$159
Bonus: 365 Adventure Guide for Singles
$147
Bonus: Situationship Shut-Down Guide
$97
Total value
$997
All of this, for a fraction of what it's worth
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What women say

200,000+ women are breaking free from toxic love patterns, are you?

★★★★★

"It revealed so many things that hurt — but it brought a lot of healing and more God-confidence. Now I rock my single life and I'm loving it."

Priscilla
Course graduate
★★★★★

"1.5 years after trusting God and doing the work, I'm finally in a serious relationship with a man who wants to wait until marriage too."

Oten
Course graduate
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Curriculum

What's inside each session

Session: Rewire Your Attraction to End Toxic Love Patterns
Rewire Your Attraction to End Toxic Love Patterns
Learn why you're drawn to unavailable men — and how to reset your attraction toward healthy, godly love.
Session: How to Know When to Walk Away
How to Know When to Walk Away
A clear, no-guesswork framework for deciding when it's time to let go of a relationship that isn't leading anywhere.
Session: Heal Your Attachment Style
Heal Your Attachment Style
Understand the attachment patterns driving your dating choices — and start healing the root, not just the symptoms.
Session: It's Giving Bare Freaking Minimum
It's Giving Bare Freaking Minimum
Learn to spot when you're settling for effort that doesn't match your worth — and stop calling it enough.
Session: If He Won't, Another Man Will
If He Won't, Another Man Will
Build the confidence to walk away from half-hearted pursuit, trusting the right man won't need convincing.
Plus, you get these free

Get these additional 5 bonuses when you sign up today!

On top of the full course, here's everything else that comes with it — at no extra cost.

5 Bonus Healing Sessions preview If He Wanted To He Would course platform preview
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Bonus

365 Adventure Guide for Singles

A full year of prompts and ideas to build a life you love now — so your happiness isn't on hold until you're in a relationship.

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Bonus

Situationship Shut-Down Guide

The exact scripts and steps to walk away from an undefined relationship with clarity and confidence — no more guessing.

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100% risk-free, 7-day guarantee

If you show up, do the work, and don't feel a shift in how you see yourself and your dating life — email me for a full refund. No hard feelings.

Esther Marie, founder of If He Wanted to He Would
Meet your guide

Esther Marie

At 31, I wrote a book called Single Shouldn't Suck — and on the day of my book launch, Valentine's Day 2022, I met my now-husband. Seven months before that, I was in a situationship, always settling for passive men.

After sharing my situationship lessons in an online reading plan, over 200,000 single women read it. That was my wake-up call: we're in a situationship pandemic.

Life Christian University Southeastern University Best-selling author 200K+ women reached

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Still have questions?

Frequently asked questions

Is this course right for me?

If you're ready to begin a healing journey that renews the way you date — in alignment with God's Word — this is for you.

I'm not in a situationship, but I need help with dating. Will this still help?

Yes. It helps every woman overcome intimidation, insecurity, and settling — and builds the confidence to be pursued the way you deserve, situationship or not.

How long do I have access?

Forever. Once you enroll, you get lifetime access to the course, all bonuses, and any future updates — go at your own pace, and revisit it anytime.

What if it doesn't work for me?

You're covered by a 7-day money-back guarantee. To qualify, you must complete every session in the course — our backend system verifies course completion before a refund is issued. Do the work, and if it's genuinely not for you, I'll refund you — no hard feelings.

Become the woman no godly man can live without.

200,000 women started right here. Your transformation is one decision away.

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